Saturday, November 14, 2009

TenDo- 12

(c) Zoua- Terry Floyd Johnson, 2009


In learning, how to defend yourself, from being where harm can
befall you, the way of Active Listening is very important, so you can
be aware, when to move on. Active Listening: listening without putting
yourself into what is being said by the other person, reflecting back
to that person what they are really saying, allowing the other person
to choose to go on or not, and support them in their decision.

Second, empathy is a very important warning system, as well as, being
able, to tell you, when someone is having problems, etc., not all
negative, it works just as well, for positive feelings. Empathy is
trusting your feelings; feeling what is bothering or happening
with another person. It isn't sympathy, where you get down in the
gutter with them, but knowing how to feel what they are going through,
and being able, to help them- help themselves.

Third, is psychic awareness, looking at the person, seeing the
aura around them, physically or with the third eye, found within your
forehead. This tells you, when to move on, or when there's going to
be problems, and what you can do, to assist a peaceful resolution,
which may, just mean not saying anything, allowing it to unfold itself, or to warn when their is danger, from violence coming.

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